Waiter Haters

Most Girlfriends has been struggling when there are friends who is hating them while waiting for their Missionaries. They are either giving you good suggestions or bad suggestions. During my early months into waiting, I had some haters and it was a few of my Missionary's friends which was no surprise. I hope this post will come useful to you.

If you can't see the Image below, it says "Sometimes I feel like I should listen to waiter haters but then I think Mmm, better not."

I will share with you, one of my experiences of how I overcame of a hater who was bothering me the most. It wasn't easy and it wasn't nice. I wouldn't be mentioning her name. "A" represents her.

A and I started conversations through Facebook, and our first meet was at Brisbane LDS Temple when it was close to my Missionary reaching his 9th month mark. She mentioned a lot of things to me, she was giving me good suggestions about me and my Missionary. Little did I know, we got a connection and friendship started.

When she messaged me on Facebook, she became mean to me for unknown reason and she mentioned that she doesn't remember what she said to me about me and my Missionary. So I blocked her on Facebook and I instantly thought about what happened. Was it something that I said? Was it something that she said? After thinking about those questions, I asked Heavenly Father to forgive her and help me to have a better start with her. It took heaps of patience and we got each other with a better start by almost 6 months later.

I learnt patience, and trusting in Heavenly Father more. I love this Image below and if you can't see what it says, it says "Not caring what other people think is the best choice you will ever make."

Girls, I have listed some suggestions that you could use a guide or it would help you out. Whatever you do, don't tell your Missionary about what happened and what you felt during the process, because it might be a distraction to him.

- You could keep a journal and write all your feelings, later on you will able to reflect and look back to it when you go through that situation again.

- If you can't put up with her him or them as your friend/s on Facebook, remove him or her or them as friends on Facebook.

- Tell her or him or them of honestly how you felt about what they did or say to you or both

- Read your scriptures or go to the Temple to feel peace and comfort

- Learn to love the haters because they are Heavenly Father's children too.

- Learn to forgive them from the mistake that they have caused to you

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