Pure Testimony

This post is based on a October General Conference 2000 talk called "Pure Testimony by Joseph B. Wirthlin."

If you can't see the Image above, it says "a TESTIMONY is to be found in the BEARING OF IT. - Boyd K. Packer."

I will be sharing with you some highlights that I have loved throughout the talk.

"For Latter-day Saints, a testimony is the assurance of the reality, truth, and goodness of God, of the teachings and atonement of Jesus Christ, and of the divine calling of latter-day prophets. It is knowledge buttressed by divine personal confirmation by the Holy Ghost.

President Joseph F. Smith declared: “Every person should know that the gospel is true, as this is everyone’s privilege who is baptised and receives the Holy Ghost. I know that the gospel is true, and that God is with his people; and that if I will do my duty and keep his commandments, the clouds will roll by, and the mists will disappear.”

How does one acquire a personal testimony?

"And when ye shall receive these things, I would exhort you that ye would ask God, the Eternal Father, in the name of Christ, if these things are not true; and if ye shall ask with a sincere heart, with real intent, having faith in Christ, he will manifest the truth of it unto you, by the power of the Holy Ghost.”

Be sincere. Study. Ponder. Pray sincerely, having faith.

A testimony of the truth of the gospel does not come the same way to all people. Some receive it in a unique, life changing experience. Others gain a testimony slowly, almost imperceptibly until, one day, they simply know.

Remember, Church members who receive a testimony of the gospel are under covenant “to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places.” It is clear we have a sacred obligation to obtain referrals for our missionaries. Witnesses have a special knowledge and are to bear testimony of “that which they have seen and heard and most assuredly believe.”

We make simple, clear, direct statements that we know with certainty and surety that the gospel is true because it has been “made known unto us by the Holy Spirit of God.” In bearing such a testimony, speaking by the power of the Holy Ghost, we are promised that “the Holy Ghost shall be shed forth in bearing record unto all things whatsoever we shall say.” We are blessed personally when we so testify."

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/10/pure-testimony

Stay Tuned.

Purpose for This Blog

Some girls may think they are weak. Girls, you are strong and learn to stay strong throughout the wait.

If you can't see the Image below, it says "You are stronger than you think!"

Girls, the purpose of having this blog is for motivation day to day throughout the wait. It suppose to be able to help you during the evening or during the day. There are posts that has suggestions that you could do either for service or doing something different. There are posts that are based on General Conference talks.

I select the talks to go with some posts, because it's inspiring and it has a lot of wonderful things that has mentioned. I noticed a few non-members has been reading this blog and they probably never got a chance to attend General Conference. So it is great to read highlights from the past General Conferences Talks or reading the whole General Conference talk.

Why does "You are stronger than you think!" Image relates to the Purpose for This Blog?
The answer is because, it's a motivation and motivation helps you become stronger. If it isn't, I am hoping that it will help you become stronger one day.

I always say "Stay Tuned" because I would love you to continue reading this blog and I don't want you to miss a post. Sometimes, it may seem hard to catch up reading posts that you have missed when there was a lot of posts that you have missed previously.

I always shares references where the talks to come from, so you can read in your own time. I don't expect for you to go and read the whole talk straight after reading the post if you don't have time.

That's all I have to say for now. Please continue reading!

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You Are in Control

Girls, I encourage you to think about a few questions as listed of the following; 'What was the first thing comes to mind, when I say you are in control?" "How does it feel to know you are in control?" and "What does it mean to you?"

If you can't see the Image below, it says "Accept how you feel but don't let your feelings rule you. You are in control. www.livelifehappy.com"

You are in control of how you use your time wisely. You are in control of your life. You are in control of making your own decisions. You are in control of what you decide to do for the next or last package to your Missionary. You are in control of how to feel today.  YOU ARE IN CONTROL!

I love a quote by Mariln Henner about being in control. Girls, I encourage you to read this quote and it says, "Being in control of your life and having realistic expectations about your day-to-day challenges are the keys to stress management, which is perhaps the most important ingredient to living a happy, healthy and rewarding life."

It is good of being in control because you know what is best for you. You can always turn to Heavenly Father with your decision making. He can either guide you with it or help you improve with your choices. Sometimes it does take time and effort to improve with your choices, but it would be worthwhile.

Stay Tuned.

The 3 C's of Life

When you saw the post title, what did you think it means? 

If you can't see the Image below, it says "The 3 C's of life ... Choice, Chance, Change. You must make the Choice to take the Chance if u want anything to Change."

We all have Choices, Chances and Changes,

CHOICES: You have the choice to wait for your Missionary or not, you have the choice to stay in contact with your Missionary or not, you have the choice to make cute and lovely packages to your Missionary or not, you have the choice to become close to your Missionary's family or not, you have the choice of how you feel today, and so on. 

CHANCES: You have the Chance to make your decisions better and you have the Chance to make back up plans. 

CHANGES: You can change your plans if things doesn't work out straight away, you can change the way of what you say through letters to your Missionary, you can change the way of how you wait for your Missionary or not, you can change your course if you don't like it, and so on. 

Girls, I encourage you to make better plans. Don't waste your time on doing nothing, when you could be doing something productive in your life (it could be doing Visiting Teaching if you are in Relief Society). Don't give up hope, always try to look for better outcomes.

I remembered doing a post on "Good, Better and Best" and if you haven't read that post, I encourage you to read it. Always remember the 3 C's of Life.

Stay Tuned.

Do Not Delay

This post is based on a October General Conference 1999 talk called "Do Not Delay. - Henry B. Eyring."

If you can't see the Image below, it says "However difficult our circumstances, we can repent."

I will be sharing with you some highlights throughout the talk. I loved how he started.  "All of us have faced deadlines. Fear can grip us when we realise that there may not be enough time left to finish what we promised we would do. The thought comes, “Why didn't I start earlier?”

We have all been tempted with that delay. We know from our own experience that President Spencer W. Kimball was right when he wrote, “One of the most serious human defects in all ages is procrastination,” and then he defined it: “an unwillingness to accept personal responsibility now” (The Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, ed. Edward L. Kimball [1982]; emphasis in original). And so Satan works on both our desire to think we have no cause to repent and our desire to push anything unpleasant into the future. He has tempted you and me, and those we love, with thoughts like this: “God is so loving; surely He won’t hold me personally responsible for mistakes which are simply the result of being human.” And then, if that fails, there is the thought that will almost surely come: “Well, I may be responsible to repent, but this is not a good time to start. If I wait, later will be better.”

The truth is that we all need repentance. If we are capable of reason and past the age of eight, we all need the cleansing that comes through applying the full effects of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. When that is clear, we cannot be tricked into delay by the subtle question: “Have I crossed the line of serious sin, or can I put off even thinking about repentance?” The question that really matters is this: “How can I learn to sense even the beginning of sin and so repent early?”

A second truth about our accountability is to know that we are not the helpless victims of our circumstances. The world tries to tell us that the opposite is true: imperfections in our parents or our faulty genetic inheritance are presented to us as absolving us of personal responsibility. But difficult as circumstances may be, they do not relieve us of accountability for our actions or our inactions. Nephi was right. God gives no commandments to the children of men save He prepares a way for them to obey."

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it.

www.lds.org/general-conference/1999/10/do-not-delay

Girls, what do you think repentance has to do with during the wait? Well, learn to forgive everyday. We all make mistakes everyday and we all aren't perfect. It always feel great after we asked for forgiveness. If your Missionary ever says to you something mean and hurt your feelings. Tell him how you felt and forgive him. Ask Heavenly Father to soften his heart and encourage him to apologise.

Stay Tuned.

True Love

Someone shared a Image on a group or on a page about True Love, and I will be sharing that Image with you,

If you can't see the Image, it says "[[ Why Do I Do It? ]] Because nights alone aren't permanent, missing him reminds me that I'm lucky to have someone to miss because I am not afraid to make sacrifices for True Love."

Girls, it's alright if you miss your Missionary so much. You are definitely lucky to have someone who is worth it to wait for. I encourage you to think about a few questions in your own time. "Why am I waiting for my Missionary?" "What could I be doing during waiting?" and "Will I serve a mission while waiting for my Missionary?"

I already have listed some suggestions about what to do when you are at a milestone, helping through a struggle and other suggestions throughout this blog, such as a post on "6 Months, What's Next?" "Overcoming Lonely Days, Lonely Nights" and a few others.

I have copied and paste a few suggestions what you could do now from reading "6 Months, What's Next?" Post.

"- Attend Young Womens or Young Single Adults Activities, this may include Firesides, Mission Preparation Classes, etc.

- Try emailing and writing letters to friends during their Missions if you haven't already.

- Be focused on Studies, it could be School or College or University.

- Making new friends"

Girls!!! Don't give up, stay strong. Don't feel discouraged. If you do feel discouraged, please pray to Heavenly Father for comfort. He is always there and always listening to you. He may not answer straight away, but he will answer in his timing. It's definitely worth it to continue waiting if it's meant to be.

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Being You

Girls, this post means a lot to me and it may means a lot to you too. A few days ago, my Dad told me "Thank you for being you. Thank you for being strong when I know you are weak. Thank you for being there for when you are helping me," and he mentioned other things too.

If you can't see the Image below, it says "Thank you for being you."

I would do anything to keep my parents happy and set a great example to all of my siblings.

Sometimes, it's hard to set an example. I go to the Temple more than my parents and more than my siblings. I encourage my Mum go to the Temple often, but it's hard. She accepted my invitation and haven't been to the Temple since last December.

I'm so grateful for everything that my Dad has done for me and my family. It's hard of raising up with my Dad working in the most nights during the week. I love getting surprises and support from him.
If you can't see the Collage before, it's photos of me and my Dad.

One of the favourite surprises was; I was all ready to go to the Stake Ball and one of my great guy friends was going to be my date. But he ended up telling me he couldn't go, because of he was going to go to a musical. My Dad had work. Some reason, my Dad went to work and he wasn't rostered on. So he called home and talked to Mum to ask if I was ready and mentioned he is on his way home.

He got change to church clothes when he got home, and he took me to the Stake Ball. It was great! I appreciated him being there, slow danced with me, spent some time together with other members from our Stake for the whole time until we had to go home.

Girls, thank you for being you. Be happy for who you are. One day or one night, your Dad will probably say "Thank you for being you" and it's a great feeling.

Stay Tuned.

Best Friend

Girls, you're lucky if your Missionary is your Best Friend. This post is based on one of the songs that I love by Jason Mraz. The song is called "Best Friend by Jason Mraz." As I was reading the lyrics while I was listening to the song, I realised the song relates to you and your Missionary.

If you haven't heard the song before, I encourage you to go and listen to it in your own time. If you can't see the video below, here's the link. www.youtube.com/watch?v=HgvqCJjn8Mg

If you finished listening to the song, think about these 3 questions "What do you think about the song?" "Does it relate to you and your Missionary somehow?" and "If so, how?"

When I listened to the song, it made me think about the girls who are waiting for their missionaries and, who would have dated the boyfriends before he left for his mission, held hands and so on. I love the lyrics towards the end of the song which is shown as a Image on this post later on.

It's great to have Best Friends, and there's nothing wrong with that. I used to have a Best Friend but he moved on and got a girlfriend. At first, I wasn't too happy about it. Throughout the years, I knew that I wouldn't be marrying him and that's okay. I love a quote that I saw as I was looking at other quotes and it's true. The quote says "There comes a point in your life when you realise who really matters, who never did, and who always will." - Unknown

If you can't see Image above, it says "My life is better, Because you're a part of it. 'Cause I know without you by my side, that I would be different. Yes, I feel my life is better and so is the world we're living in. I'm thankful for the time I spent with my best friend. You're my best friend."

I know who my true friends are, who my best friends are, who I can trust, who I can talk to if I need someone to talk to and so on.

Stay Tuned.

Rescue in Unity

We all in this together. We all go through up's and down's. We always progressing to be better more each day. We all could find some service and help one another. This post is based on a October General Conference 2014 talk called "Rescue in Unity by Elder Chi Hong Wong."

I love the Image with a important quote to remember and if you can't see it, it says "We can all HELP one another. We should always be anxiously engaged in seeking to RESCUE those in NEED. - Elder Chi Hong Wong. October 2014 General Conference." 

I will share with you some highlights that I loved during reading the talk. 

"In our day, it might happen like this. Four people were fulfilling an assignment from their bishop to visit, at his home, a man who was sick with palsy. I can visualize one of them coming from the Relief Society, one from the elders quorum, one from the Aaronic Priesthood, and, last but not least, one full-time missionary. In the most recent ward council, after counseling together about the needs in the ward, the bishop had given out “rescuing” assignments. These four were assigned to help this man suffering with palsy. They could not wait for him to come to church by himself. They had to go to his home and visit him. They had to seek him out, and so they went. The man was being brought to Jesus.

In order to assist the Savior, we have to work together in unity and in harmony. Everyone, every position, and every calling is important. We have to be united in our Lord Jesus Christ.

This rescue assignment needed everyone working together. At the crucial moment, it would take careful coordination to lower the man with palsy from the roof. The four people would have to work in unity and in harmony. There could not be any discord among the four. They would have to lower the man with palsy at the same pace. If someone released the rope faster than the other three, the man would fall out of his bed. He could not hold on by himself due to his weakened condition.

Full-time missionaries are great resources to the wards in these rescue efforts. They are young and full of energy. They love to have a list of specific names of people to work with. They enjoy working together with ward members. They know these are great finding opportunities for them. They are devoted to establishing the Lord’s kingdom. They have a strong testimony that they will become more Christlike as they participate in these rescuing efforts."

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/10/rescue-in-unity

I encourage you to think about this question "What can I do today to help one another?" in your own time.

Stay Tuned.

Look Ahead and Believe

We may not able to look ahead as what the future has held for us. When we trust in Heavenly Father, he knows what's best for us and knows what's in store for us in his timing. This post is based on a General Conference in October 2013 called "Look Ahead and Believe by Elder Edward Dube."

If you can't see the Image below, it says "In the sight of the Lord, it is not so much what we have done or where we have been but much more where we are willing to go. - Elder Edward Dube." 

I will share with you some highlights that I loved throughout the talk.

"My dear brothers and sisters, the covenant we made with the Lord when we were baptised, “to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that [we] may be in” (Mosiah 18:9), is a lifelong commitment. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf counseled, “Those who have entered the waters of baptism and received the gift of the Holy Ghost have set their feet on the path of discipleship and are charged to follow steadily and fully in the footsteps of our Savior” (“Saints for All Seasons,” Ensign, Sept. 2013). The Lord through His servants calls us to serve in various callings, which we accept with total commitment. When a release has been extended and a call in a different assignment has been issued, we joyfully accept it, knowing, as our forebearers knew, that “in the service of the Lord, it is not where you serve but how” (J. Reuben Clark Jr., in Conference Report, Apr. 1951,).

As we look ahead and believe, we need this same teamwork in hastening the work of salvation as we invite others to come unto Christ. In our individual capacities, we need to follow the counsel of President Dieter F. Uchtdorf to “stand close together and lift where we stand” (“Lift Where You Stand,” Ensign, Nov. 2008). We can tap our full potential, just as was observed by Elder L. Tom Perry of the Quorum of the Twelve: “As I travel throughout the Church I marvel at all the positive things that are occurring. Yet I never feel that we, as a people, are living up to our real potential. My sense is that we do not always work together, that we are still too much interested in aspirations for personal honors and success, and show too little interest in the common goal of building the kingdom of God” (“United in Building the Kingdom of God,” Ensign, May 1987).

May we all unite in a common objective “to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man” (Moses 1:39).

Our guiding principles were taught to us by the Prophet Joseph Smith: “The fundamental principles of our religion are the testimony of the Apostles and Prophets, concerning Jesus Christ, that He died, was buried, and rose again the third day, and ascended into heaven; and all other things which pertain to our religion are only appendages to it” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith [2007],)."

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/look-ahead-and-believe

Stay Tuned.

Good Things To Come

This post is based on a October General Conference 1999 talk called “An High Priest of Good Things to Come” by Jeffrey R. Holland.

If you can't see the Image, it says "Don't you give up. Don't you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead ... It will be alright in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come. Jeffrey R. Holland."

I will share with you some highlights that I love throughout the talk.

I love how he starts "Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don’t come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come.

Every one of us has times when we need to know things will get better. Moroni spoke of it in the Book of Mormon as “hope for a better world.” For emotional health and spiritual stamina, everyone needs to be able to look forward to some respite, to something pleasant and renewing and hopeful, whether that blessing be near at hand or still some distance ahead. It is enough just to know we can get there, that however measured or far away, there is the promise of “good things to come.”

My declaration is that this is precisely what the gospel of Jesus Christ offers us, especially in times of need. There is help. There is happiness. There really is light at the end of the tunnel. It is the Light of the World, the Bright and Morning Star, the “light that is endless, that can never be darkened.” It is the very Son of God Himself. In loving praise far beyond Romeo’s reach, we say, “What light through yonder window breaks?” It is the return of hope, and Jesus is the Sun. To any who may be struggling to see that light and find that hope, I say: Hold on. Keep trying. God loves you. Things will improve. Christ comes to you in His “more excellent ministry” with a future of “better promises.” He is your “high priest of good things to come.”

I think of newly called missionaries leaving family and friends to face, on occasion, some rejection and some discouragement and, at least in the beginning, a moment or two of homesickness and perhaps a little fear."

There's a video to go with some parts throughout the talk. If you can't see the video below, here's the link  www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nczw6xHJ0I

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/1999/10/an-high-priest-of-good-things-to-come

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Appreciate the Little Things

Sometimes in life we don't see the little things, it's either because we get too distracted or don't recognise it. When we get too distracted or don't recognise those little things, then we would become unknown to little things in life.

If you can't see the Image below, it says "Appreciate the little things."

Little things can be simple. It can be like random act of kindness, such as letting your brother or your sister to know that you love them, making a new friend, and many more.

When we do recognise the little things in life, we have to something about it. We can't just act like nothing has happened and it wouldn't change a thing that it has happened. We can make those little things turned into big things. If we continue to allow those little things turn into big things, eventually  it will become an impact into your life.

For an example, you have decided to call a friend. It could be a friend who you haven't spoken to for quite some time or a friend you know who is struggling or a friend who loves to talk to you. He or she will appreciate your call. If he or she doesn't answer, leave a message.

Another example can be, aiming to go to the Temple once a month and change it to going to the Temple twice a month, Make a habit of attending often and you will be blessed. I have been going to the Temple often, and it has made known to the Temple workers to say "Welcome Sister Green" instead of calling me by name "Megan."

I encourage you to think about these two questions "What can I do to make the current little things turn into big things?" What are the little things that I appreciate for?" in your own time.

Stay Tuned.

The Best Paths

This post is based on a recent October General Conference 2014 talk called "The Lord Has a Plan for Us!" by Elder Carlos A. Godoy.

If you can't see the Image, it says "The best paths in life are rarely the easiest. - Elder Carlos A. Godoy"

I will share with you some highlights that I loved throughout the talk.

"All of us have experienced or will yet experience moments of great decision in our lives. Should I pursue this career or that one? Should I serve a mission? Is this the right person for me to marry?

These are situations in different areas of our lives in which a small change in direction can have significant future consequences. In the words of President Dieter F. Uchtdorf: “Through years of serving the Lord, I have learned that the difference between happiness and misery in individuals, in marriages, and families often comes down to an error of only a few degrees” (“A Matter of a Few Degrees,” Ensign May 2008).

It was not a decision between what was right and wrong but between what was good and what was better, as Elder Dallin H. Oaks taught us when he said: “As we consider various choices, we should remember that it is not enough that something is good. Other choices are better, and still others are best” (“Good, Better, Best,” Ensign Nov. 2007).

How then can we ensure that we are making the best decision?" 

"Principle Number One: We Need to Consider Our Options with the End in Mind

Making decisions that can impact our lives and those we love without having the broader vision of their consequences can bring some risks. However, if we project the possible consequences of these decisions into the future, we can see with greater clarity the best path to take in the present.

Principle Number Two: We Need to Be Prepared for the Challenges That Will Come

In the words of President Thomas S. Monson: “Each of you, single or married, regardless of age, has the opportunity to learn and to grow. Expand your knowledge, both intellectual and spiritual, to the full stature of your divine potential” (“The Mighty Strength of the Relief Society,” Ensign, Nov. 1997).

Principle Number Three: We Need to Share This Vision with the People We Love

Lehi made more than a few attempts to help Laman and Lemuel understand the importance of the change they were making. The fact that they did not share their father’s vision caused them to murmur during the journey. Nephi, on the other hand, sought the Lord in order to see what his father had seen.

“And it came to pass after I, Nephi, having heard all the words of my father, concerning the things which he saw in a vision, I was desirous also that I might see, and hear, and know of these things, by the power of the Holy Ghost” (1 Nephi 10:17).

With this vision, Neph was able not only to overcome the challenges of the journey but also to lead his family when it became necessary.

It is very likely that when we decide to take a certain path, the people we love will be affected, and some will even share with us the results of this choice. Ideally, they should be able to see what we see and share our same convictions. This is not always possible, but when it occurs, the journey is much easier."

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/10/the-lord-has-a-plan-for-us

Stay Tuned.

I Love To See The Temple

I always love seeing the Temple. I remembered when before my Missionary left, I told him how often I go to the Temple and it was 3 to 4 times a year. He was surprised and his response was "Really? That's a bummer to wait especially when you live so close to it." We continued talking about the Temple for the remaining of the conversation until his phone was about to die.

If you can't see the Image above, it says "You are never lost when you can see the temple. - Gary E. Stevenson."

Girls, make an effort to go inside the Temple and attend any session once a month if you have a Temple Recommend or walk around the Temple Grounds. It's a great feeling to see the Temple. I always feel peace and comfort. It helps me not think about worldly distractions while I am at the Temple, I always try to remember to think about the Saviour, Heavenly Father, things that I am grateful for and a few other things.

Recently, one of my friends who he is a returned missionary has invited me to go to the Temple with him and I wasn't going to say "no" because I love accepting invitations that I know that the location will make me happy. I accepted his invitation by saying "Yes," happily.

Whenever I don't go to the Temple after attending every week, it's so hard to get the routine of going to the Temple often again. My institute class is held at the Chapel where the Temple is, and I go to Institute every week.

- If you aren't a member, make a goal to find a day or evening to walk around the Temple Grounds.

- If you don't have a Temple Recommend, make a goal to get a Temple Recommend. 

- If you do have a Temple Recommend, make a goal to attend the Temple often. 

- If you are planning to go to the Temple soon, take a friend with you. 

If you haven't heard the song "I Love To See The Temple," well here's the link below that you could listen to in your own time. 

www.youtube.com/watch?v=-leHctl91jk

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Any Good

I loved a Hymn called "Have I Done Any Good in the World Today?" If you haven't heard of the hymn before, here's the link for the song cover. www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIeA_5yYgB4

If you can't see the Image above, it says "Have I Done Any Good in the WORLD today?"

Have you thought about any suggestions that you could do during the day or evening in the world? I encourage you to ask yourself that question throughout the day, each day until your Missionary comes home. I have listed some suggestions what you could do good in the world.

- You could ask a Sister (if she has children) for babysitting, so her and her husband can go on a date.

- Think about someone who needs to receive a letter the most and give it to him or her, (someone must be from your ward).

- Make a dinner for a Sister or any of the Young Women's Presidency from your ward for a night.

- Offer someone a lift to where they need to go (it could be anyone and could be to anywhere).

- Invite a friend who has a current Temple Recommend to go to the Temple with.

- Organise to spend a day with one of your friends who you aren't close.

- Attend a session in the Temple (it could be any session).

- Help a friend or a relative with Family History.

- Cheer up someone when they are sad.

There are so much more suggestions that I could think of, but I hope the suggestions above will help you to do something good in the world today. 

Stay Tuned.

Learn, Prepare and Live

This post is based on a April General Conference 2003 talk called "In Search of Treasure by Thomas S Monson." If you can't see the Image below, it says "The past is behind. Learn from it. The future is ahead. Prepare for it. The present is here. Live it. - Thomas S. Monson."

I will share with you of the highlights that I loved throughout the talk.

"The promised reward was not a treasure of ivory, gold, or silver. Neither did it consist of acres of land or a portfolio of stocks and bonds. The Master spoke of riches within the grasp of all even joy unspeakable here and eternal happiness hereafter.

Today I have chosen to provide the three pieces of your treasure map to guide you to your eternal happiness. They are:

1. Learn from the past.
2. Prepare for the future.
3. Live in the present.

First, learn from the past. Each of us has a heritage whether from pioneer forebears, later converts, or others who helped to shape our lives. This heritage provides a foundation built of sacrifice and faith. Ours is the privilege and responsibility to build on such firm and stable footings.

Second, prepare for the future. We live in a changing world. Technology has altered nearly every aspect of our lives. We must cope with these advances even these cataclysmic changes in a world of which our forebears never dreamed.

Remember the promise of the Lord: “If ye are prepared ye shall not fear.” Fear is a deadly enemy of progress.

Third, live in the present. Sometimes we let our thoughts of tomorrow take up too much of today. Daydreaming of the past and longing for the future may provide comfort but will not take the place of living in the present. This is the day of our opportunity, and we must grasp it."

Matthew, Chapter 6

19, “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:

20, “But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:

21, “For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/2003/04/in-search-of-treasure

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Think to Pray

Sometimes when we are caught up with many things in front of us and distractions in life, we may seem to forget to pray to Heavenly Father. Pray when you are ready. If you can't see the Image below, it says "Did you think to pray?"

When I see that Image first, I thought about the hymn "Did you think to pray?" 

When your Missionary says that he is struggling with anything during his mission, say a prayer for help and guidance  that he will get out of that situation.

When your Missionary doesn't email you and you feel sad, say a prayer to be able to feel peace and comfort.

When you feel that you are going to give up on waiting, say a prayer to ask if it is the right decision or not. 

When you are about to take a test or examination, say a prayer to ask for help and that you wouldn't feel nervous. 

When you feel any of what the Image below says which is "lost, confused, unsure, unclear, perplexed, disoriented and bewildered." say a prayer for help, guidance and to be able to feel comfort.

Don't be afraid, Heavenly Father is always willing to listen what you have to say. He knows who you are, he knows your weaknesses and he knows your strengths. Share with him, how you are feeling. 

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Speak Up, Be Heard

Girls, get out of your comfort zones and learn to speak up! Don't be afraid when it comes to asking your Missionary's Mum any questions that you may have. There is no such thing of asking too many questions! Sometimes, the answer will be a no but that's okay. Sometimes, the answer will be a maybe but that's okay. Sometimes, the answer will be a yes but that's okay.

I was a shy and nervous girl when I met my Missionary for the first time. I got out of my comfort zone by just saying "hey" to him and then everything fell into place. Instantly, I felt peace when I got the first conversation between me and him going.

I haven't got a chance to meet my Missionary's Mum because her and I live 40 hours apart. Most times when I talk to her, it feels like that I have been asking her too many questions. What do I get in return? She asks me heaps of questions, she checks up on me and being a good influence into my life.

If you can't see the Image below, it says "Speak up, Be Heard, if you don't say a word, everything will stay the same way."

Girls, your Missionary's Mum isn't going to hurt you in any way. She is happy to help you, give you support, give your guidance and encourage you throughout the wait if you just ask her. You can make her day brighten and better by sending her gifts, little packages, letters if you live far away from her. If you live close to her, make an effort to visit her often and make a meal for her and your Missionary's family. You could also do service for them. I'm sure she will appreciate with anything that you do for her. 

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Look Up

This post is based on a Article in January 2012 called "Look Up by Elder Carl B. Cook." I definitely enjoyed reading the Article. I would like to share with you some highlights that I loved during reading the Article.

If you can't see the Image above, it says "Try not to look sideways to see how others are viewing our lives but to look up to see how Heavenly Father sees us. - Elder Carl B. Cook"

He was sharing one of his experiences as a young Missionary; He noticed that the others in his district were progressing much faster than he was. Long story short, "I began to plead with Heavenly Father for some relief. The Lord answered that prayer. I felt this thought come into my mind: “I never called you to master the German language. I just called you to serve with all of your heart, mind, and strength.”

I immediately thought, “I can do that. I can serve with all of my heart, mind, and strength. If that’s what the Lord has called me to do, I can do that.” I stood up feeling tremendously relieved.

Instead, I focused on how the Lord felt I was doing. Instead of looking to the side to compare myself to others, I began to look up, so to speak, to know what He thought of my efforts."

How do we “look up”? He shared a description for each principle that can help. I will share with you what they are, but not the description.

- Tap into Spiritual Power
- Stay True to the Direction You Receive
- Don’t Be Afraid to Act
- Stand by Your Post
- Look Heavenward

I will share with you what President Thomas S. Monson said at the end.

“Looking heavenward should be our lifelong endeavor. Some foolish persons turn their backs on the wisdom of God and follow the allurement of fickle fashion, the attraction of false popularity, and the thrill of the moment. Their course of conduct resembles the disastrous experience of Esau, who exchanged his birthright for a mess of pottage.

“And what are the results of such action? I testify to you today that turning away from God brings broken covenants, shattered dreams, and crushed hopes. Such a quagmire of quicksand I plead with you to avoid. You are of a noble birthright. Eternal life in the kingdom of our Father is your goal.

“Such a goal is not achieved in one glorious attempt, but rather is the result of a lifetime of righteousness, an accumulation of wise choices, even a constancy of purpose and lofty ideals.

“Amidst the confusion of our age, the conflicts of conscience, and the turmoil of daily living, an abiding faith becomes an anchor to our lives.”

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/ensign/2012/01/look-up

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Love Each Other

This post is based on October General Conference 2003 talk called "Choosing Charity: That Good Part by Bonnie D. Parkin." I loved how she mentions at the beginning "Each of you; no matter your age, stage of life, or circumstance is needed, valued, and loved in Relief Society. Thank you for who you are; thank you for all that you do."

If you can't see the Image above, it says "I invite you to not only love each other more but love each other better - Bonnie D.Parkin."

I will share with you some highlights that I loved during reading this talk,

"We all are trying to choose the good part which cannot be taken from us, to balance the spiritual and the temporal in our lives. The one thing that is needful is to choose eternal life. We choose daily. As we seek, listen, and follow the Lord, we are encircled in the arms of His love a love that is pure.

Mormon teaches us that “charity is the pure love of Christ, and it endureth forever.” The pure love of Christ. Let’s look at that. What does this phrase mean? We find part of the answer in Joshua: “Take diligent heed to love the Lord your God and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul.” Charity is our love for the Lord, shown through our acts of service, patience, compassion, and understanding for one another.

Do we judge one another? Do we criticize each other for individual choices, thinking we know better, when in fact we rarely understand another’s unique circumstance or individual inspiration? Have we ever said, “She works outside the home.” Or, “Her son didn’t serve a mission.” Or, “She’s too old for a calling.” Or, “She can’t she’s single.” Such judgments, and so many others like them, rob us of the good part, that pure love of Christ.

Elder Marvin J. Ashton beautifully observed: “Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don’t judge or categorise someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet. Charity is accepting someone’s differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended when someone doesn't handle something the way we might have hoped. Charity is refusing to take advantage of another’s weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. Charity is expecting the best of each other."

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it.

www.lds.org/general-conference/2003/10/choosing-charity-that-good-part

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The Choice is Yours

We all have Agency. What is Agency? Agency is the ability and privilege God gives us to choose and to act for ourselves. This post is based on a Ensign Article in March 2007 called "Prophet, Church Leaders Counsel Youth at Fireside by Stephanie Long."

If you can't see the Image above, it says "You can be wise and happy or stupid and miserable. The choice is yours - Gordon B. Hinckley."

You have the choice to either continue waiting for your Missionary or not, You have the choice to either write letters to your Missionary or not. You have the choice to either email your Missionary or not. You have the choice to either do packages for your Missionary or not. The choice is still yours. I will share with you some highlights throughout this Article that I have liked.

Gordon B. Hinckley says Be smart. “You need all the education you can get. You should sacrifice anything that is needed to be sacrificed to qualify yourselves to do the work of the world. Train your mind and your hands to become an influence for good as you go forward with your life.”

Be Prayerful.“None of us can do it alone. Prayer will change your life. It will bring you peace. It will give you direction and guidance. It will help you feel that you are not alone in this big and sometimes brutal world. The Lord answers our prayers. I know that.”

Sister Tanner said that virtuous thought would invite the companionship of the Holy Ghost, and one could find confidence and comfort in such a companionship. Sharing a personal story, she spoke of a time when she was struggling with despair, yet found comfort in thinking positive thoughts.

“I concentrated on three things: Finals will be over in three weeks. I know my family loves me. And I know Heavenly Father loves me. These thoughts elevated me enough to feel the comfort and guidance of the Holy Ghost through a difficult time.”

Everyone struggles with hard times, everyone needs to be rescued from time to time, but everyone has a loving Heavenly Father who is always there, Sister Tanner said. Personally living by the motto “I can do hard things,” Sister Tanner encouraged all the youth to resolve to let virtue garnish their thoughts unceasingly, that their confidence may wax strong in the presence of God.

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/ensign/2007/03/news-of-the-church/prophet-church-leaders-counsel-youth-at-fireside

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Come Join Us

I loved a letter that I have received almost 2 months ago. It was from a friend who has been serving his mission in Tucson Arizona and Spanish speaking. I loved the quote that he has shared with me towards the end of the letter. I thought the quote would be a good motivation and this post is based on a October 2013, General Conference talk "Come Join Us by Dieter F. Uchtdorf."

 If you can't see the Image with the quote above, it says "Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith. - President Dieter F. Uchtdorf"

I will share with you some highlights that I loved what Dieter F. Uchtdorf mentioned through the talk. Subheading was "Regardless of your circumstances, your personal history, or the strength of your testimony, there is room for you in this Church."

“I suppose the Church would only be perfect if it were run by perfect beings. God is perfect, and His doctrine is pure. But He works through us — His imperfect children — and imperfect people make mistakes.” Speaking to “those who have separated themselves from the Church,” President Uchtdorf said, “Come, and add your talents, gifts, and energies to ours. We will all become better as a result.”

He said it is natural to have questions or doubts. “Faith is to hope for things which are not seen, but which are true (Alma 32:21),” he said.

Some, he said, don’t think they fit in with the people in the Church. “If you could see into our hearts, you would probably find that you fit in better than you suppose.”

And some wonder if they can live up to the Church’s standards. ”All the more reason to come,” President Uchtdorf said. “The Church is designed to nourish the imperfect, the struggling and the exhausted. It is filled with people who desire with all their heart to keep the commandments, even if they haven’t mastered them yet.”

He said that in spite of our human imperfections, he is confident that among the members of the Church are many of the finest souls this world has to offer. “In this age of waning faith — in this age where so many feel distanced from heaven’s embrace — here you will find a people who yearn to know and draw closer to their Savior by serving God and fellowmen, just like you. Come, join with us!”

In your own time, you can read the whole talk, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it. www.lds.org/general-conference/2013/10/come-join-with-us

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Overcoming Lonely Days, Lonely Nights

I know most of the Missionary Girlfriends feels when they have lonely days and lonely nights. I know it isn't a nice feeling when we feel lonely. I hope this post helps you not having lonely days, lonely nights. If you can't see the Image below, it says "Such a lonely day."

Girls, it is alright if you have lonely days and lonely nights. You aren't alone. I have listed some suggestions to turn from lonely day or lonely night to a better day or a better evening. I found a good Article called "Alone, but Not Lonely by Ines S. Searle." I suggest you read it in your own time. 

- Call someone who you love; it could be your grandparents or your older siblings (if you do have any). 

- Spend time; with your family or your Missionary's family (if you have a close relationship to them)

- Organise and spend some time with your friends; to friends who you haven't seen for ages.

- Write; write letters to your Missionary and some other friends who are serving their missions.

- Read something; read a Book or read the Scriptures or your favourite Book.

- Keep a Journal; you could write your feelings in your Journal at any time.

- Be Creative; you could create packages for your Missionary.

- Drive; drive to somewhere that you haven't been before.

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Waiter Haters

Most Girlfriends has been struggling when there are friends who is hating them while waiting for their Missionaries. They are either giving you good suggestions or bad suggestions. During my early months into waiting, I had some haters and it was a few of my Missionary's friends which was no surprise. I hope this post will come useful to you.

If you can't see the Image below, it says "Sometimes I feel like I should listen to waiter haters but then I think Mmm, better not."

I will share with you, one of my experiences of how I overcame of a hater who was bothering me the most. It wasn't easy and it wasn't nice. I wouldn't be mentioning her name. "A" represents her.

A and I started conversations through Facebook, and our first meet was at Brisbane LDS Temple when it was close to my Missionary reaching his 9th month mark. She mentioned a lot of things to me, she was giving me good suggestions about me and my Missionary. Little did I know, we got a connection and friendship started.

When she messaged me on Facebook, she became mean to me for unknown reason and she mentioned that she doesn't remember what she said to me about me and my Missionary. So I blocked her on Facebook and I instantly thought about what happened. Was it something that I said? Was it something that she said? After thinking about those questions, I asked Heavenly Father to forgive her and help me to have a better start with her. It took heaps of patience and we got each other with a better start by almost 6 months later.

I learnt patience, and trusting in Heavenly Father more. I love this Image below and if you can't see what it says, it says "Not caring what other people think is the best choice you will ever make."

Girls, I have listed some suggestions that you could use a guide or it would help you out. Whatever you do, don't tell your Missionary about what happened and what you felt during the process, because it might be a distraction to him.

- You could keep a journal and write all your feelings, later on you will able to reflect and look back to it when you go through that situation again.

- If you can't put up with her him or them as your friend/s on Facebook, remove him or her or them as friends on Facebook.

- Tell her or him or them of honestly how you felt about what they did or say to you or both

- Read your scriptures or go to the Temple to feel peace and comfort

- Learn to love the haters because they are Heavenly Father's children too.

- Learn to forgive them from the mistake that they have caused to you

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18 Months, What's Next?

If you already have reached 18 months or about to reach 18 months, this post is for you.  If you can't see the Image below, it says "6 Months To Go!"

What does it mean for you when you reached 18 months down or about to reach 18 months? When I reached 18 months down, I instantly reflected about what I have done for 18 months and knowing that I had 6 months left. Girls, it isn't long until your Missionary comes home.

Ask yourself these following questions. What have I done for 18 months? What will be my plans for the next 6 months? What would I like to achieve for the next 6 months? What am I feeling right now?
When I reached 18 months down; I continued going to the Temple often (almost every week), I attended Institute until the class was finish for the year and I spent almost every weekend and some days during the week with a few close YSA friends.

My plans wasn't clear, I kept changing the plans because when something comes up, I try to get myself going to most events and make the most out of it. It didn't worked out so well. However I did have a few things listed that I would like to achieve for the next 6 months. Those things were to spend some time with my family, spend some time with some friends who I'm not close with and continuing to help others who have been waiting for a short time.

What was I feeling when I reached 18 months; I felt mixed emotions. I was very excited, nervous, very proud and happy. I know Heavenly Father and my Missionary's Mum has helped me a lot throughout the 18 months and knowing with a high chance, that they will continue to help me through the 6 months remaining. I still didn't know when my Missionary comes home, hopefully soon.

It's normal to feel nervous and very excited. It's normal that you may feel lost of not sure what to do for the next 6 months. Whatever you decide to do, make sure it makes you happy and that time will go fast. Don't allow others to make your decisions for you, it's okay for asking others for their opinions.

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Listen to The Promptings

For the girls who are members of the Church, always listen and act upon those promptings of the Holy Ghost. The Holy Ghost is here to help you, guide you, warn you and other things. Sometimes, I know when I don't listen to the Promptings and don't act upon it straight away, I feel bad and ask myself why did I ignored the Prompting.

This post is based on a talk from L. Tom Perry of October General Conference last year. The talk is called "Finding Lasting Peace and Building Eternal Families." 

I love a quote from General Conference, and if you can't see the Image that has the quote, it says "We must never let the noise of the world overpower and overwhelm that still, small voice. - L. Tom Perry." I will share with you some of the things that I liked throughout this talk.

"For behold, again I say unto you that if ye will enter in by the way, and receive the Holy Ghost, it will show unto you all things what ye should do” (2 Nephi 32:5).

"We certainly have been warned of events that we will be facing in our day. Our challenge will be how we prepare for the events the Lord has said are surely still to come.

Many in our worried society understand that the disintegration of the family will bring only sorrow and hopelessness into a troubled world. As members of the Church, we have the responsibility to preserve and protect the family as the basic unit of society and eternity. The prophets have warned and forewarned about the inevitable and destructive consequence of a deterioration of family values.

As the world continues to watch us, let us be certain that our example will sustain and support the plan the Lord has designed for His children here in mortality. The greatest teaching of all must be done by righteous example. Our homes must be holy places in order to stand against the pressures of the world. Remember that the greatest of all the blessings of the Lord come through and are given to righteous families."

In your own time, you can read the whole Article, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it.

www.lds.org/general-conference/2014/10/finding-lasting-peace-and-building-eternal-families

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Move Forward in Faith

This post is based on a Article from Ensign in Year 2013. It's called "Move Forward in Faith." I loved how it starts with a question because it relates to some of us may ask that question. If you can't see the question which is the Image below, it says "What should you do when you have to make a decision and you've prayed about your choices, but you're still unsure of what to do?"

I will share with you some highlights that I could out of this Article. There is so much to learn from this Article. One thing you can’t forget is to involve the Lord in your self-improvement. Pray and remember that the Lord promised that if you come unto Him, He will help you and turn your weakness into strength (see Ether 12:27).

Proceed with Trust - Elder Richard G. Scott
“What do you do when you have prepared carefully, have prayed fervently, waited a reasonable time for a response, and still do not feel an answer? You may want to express thanks when that occurs, for it is an evidence of [Heavenly Father’s] trust. When you are living worthily and your choice is consistent with the Savior’s teachings and you need to act, proceed with trust. As you are sensitive to the promptings of the Spirit, one of two things will certainly occur at the appropriate time: either the stupor of thought will come, indicating an improper choice, or the peace or the burning in the bosom will be felt, confirming that your choice was correct. When you are living righteously and are acting with trust, God will not let you proceed too far without a warning impression if you have made the wrong decision.”

Reference: Elder Richard G. Scott of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Using the Supernal Gift of Prayer,” Ensign, May 2007, 10.

Don’t Take Counsel from Your Fears - President James E. Faust
“Let us not take counsel from our fears. May we remember always to be of good cheer, put our faith in God, and live worthy for Him to direct us. We are each entitled to receive personal inspiration to guide us through our mortal probation. May we so live that our hearts are open at all times to the whisperings and comfort of the Spirit.”

Reference: President James E. Faust (1920–2007), Second Counselor in the First Presidency, “Be Not Afraid,” Ensign, Oct. 2002, 6.

Wait Patiently for Revelation - Elder David A. Bednar
“The gradual increase of light radiating from the rising sun is like receiving a message from God ‘line upon line, precept upon precept’ (2 Nephi 28:30). Most frequently, revelation comes in small increments over time and is granted according to our desire, worthiness, and preparation. Such communications from Heavenly Father gradually and gently ‘distil upon [our souls] as the dews from heaven’ (D&C 121:45).”

Reference: Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “The Spirit of Revelation,” Ensign, May 2011, 88.

Know That God Will Provide - President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
“During [a] busy season of my life, Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin extended a call to me to serve as stake president.

“During my interview with him, many thoughts raced through my mind, not the least of which was the unsettling worry that I might not have the time this calling would require. Although I felt humbled and honored by the call, I briefly wondered if I could accept it. But it was only a fleeting thought because I knew that Elder Wirthlin was called of God and that he was doing the Lord’s work. What could I do but accept?

“There are times when we have to step into the darkness in faith, confident that God will place solid ground beneath our feet once we do. And so I accepted gladly, knowing that God would provide.”

Reference: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, “The Why of Priesthood Service,” Ensign, May 2012, 59.

In your own time, you can read the whole Article, Here's the link below, and I hope you will enjoy reading it.

www.lds.org/ensign/2013/08/move-forward-in-faith

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Happy New Year

It's a New Year! This is the year to some girls having their Missionaries coming home. I know how it feels for some girls who has to wait for another year for their Missionaries to come home that they could wish that their Missionaries comes home this year instead of next year. I still remembered when I was in Month 3 or Month 6, wishing that time would go faster and speed up to either halfway or Month 18.

I realised I would have to work for it, work for the time to go fast and time wouldn't go fast if I didn't keep myself busy. Girls, don't wish time goes fast. Allow the time to take it's time and keep yourself busy. Try to allow time to get yourself thinking to what goals that you would love to achieve your Missionary is gone, it could either be improving of Temple attendance or going to Church Firesides.

I set myself so many goals that I thought that I wouldn't able to achieve half of them. I realised that the more that I have trusted into Heavenly Father for able to achieve the goals, I was able to achieve almost all of the goals.

Happy New Year 2015!!

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